When Carolyn, Gary and I  met with me to discuss their ceremony, they wanted something intimate, fun, meaningful participation of their community, and if possible to walk away with a remembrance of the love and intentions that were shared on their very special day.  

Their wedding was to be held at the lovely Crane Estate on the beach and as we played with different concepts for their ceremony,  I inquired into the actual "set-up", specifically did they envision any sort of aisle or seating arrangements.   Their thinking was they didn't think it possible considering there were few chairs (most everyone would be standing) and the wind by the ocean would be a factor.  My response as their wedding officiant was simply; "well let's explore how we might build an aisle, get everyone involved, and have a meaningful remembrance".

What we co-created from this discussion was a wonderful ritual in which their community brought rocks with wishes written on them to the ceremony.  At the beginning of the gathering, with Carolyn & Gary looking on, their community was invited to honor their marriage by creating the very aisle that they would be walking down. 

Never, did we imagined how powerful and engaging this would be. The thought and love that would go into designing the rocks and the immense amount of fun that was had by even the small ones was wondrous. 

So if you are thinking something can't be done...ask how it might be achieved.  My tip for you today is to really think through what it is you wish to create and then have fun doing it! 
(photos courtesy of Louise Michaud Photographer c  2011)